I’m always surprised when I do something that seems counterintuitive and it happens to be just the right thing to do.
When you are hot and the sweat is pouring off you, your first reaction is to try to make yourself as cool as possible.
After I have worked out in my home gym, I often take my t-shirt off because it’s wet, I’m hot, and I feel that I will cool down easier if my skin can breathe better.
It makes sense … but not always.
There have been times that I have had a cold or flu and have been running a fever. My head feels like it’s going to explode, I’m all stuffed up … you get the picture.
I’m a bit of a mess.
Instead of getting under the covers and laying low, sometimes I have gone out and played hockey. In fact, I will wear an extra shirt under my pads and zip it up to try to sweat the cold or flu right out of my system.
I know that doesn’t sound like it would work, but it does and has … some of the time, on more than one occasion. There are times I’ve been just too sick to sweat it out.
And when I have a cold, I will purposely go to bed in a pair of sweatpants and a sweatshirt. I’ll put an extra blanket over me with the hopes that by morning I will have broken my fever.
My clothes may be drenched and I might be sweating, but many, many times I feel better when I wake up.
Sometimes doing the opposite of what you think you should do works in your favour.
The last couple of days I’ve had a stiff neck. I think a few muscle in my neck have been waging a little revolt on me for some reason.
It’s sore. But rather than keeping my neck still, I’ve been doing exercises to stretch and compress the muscles that are in mutiny right now.
It seems to be working, but let me tell you, I’ve gotten some strange looks from people when I’ve chosen to do these stretches in public.
It looks odd to people when you are walking in a mall and are trying to bend your head in such a way as to get your ear to touch your shoulder, or at least move in that direction.
It’s hard to see the road when you dip your head down and try to touch your chin to your chest. … I don’t do that one too often when I’m in the car.
This morning I played hockey. And even though my neck was sore before I started, as I played things began to loosen up until I didn’t even notice that my neck was stiff or sore.
We’ll see how I fare the rest of the day. Will my neck stiffen or become even more flexible?
Here’s the thing: The natural thing to do when you wrong someone or hurt someone is to stay clear. You pull back and try to avoid them. We do that with God, too. Maybe we are embarrassed; maybe we think He won’t forgive us, or that He will punish us. But doing the counterintuitive thing works best. It is amazing how apologizing to the person you’ve wronged or hurt actually makes it better. When we’ve sinned and go to God, He is waiting with open arms.
That’s Life!
Paul
Question: What do you need to do this week that seems counterintuitive? Leave your comments and questions below.
