Currently I’m on vacation some where near a sandy beach, on Lake Huron. While I am away I am featuring a guest blog about once a week. Today’s blog comes from Wendy Lehmann who is a work from home mom with two boys, ages 10 and 6. She has been married for 17 years and originally hales from Winnipeg. Though being a mom is primarily her main “job title”, she runs a small side business sharing tea with friends. She is presently working on starting a blog which should go live September 1st. You can check Wendy’s blog out then at www.taketime4tea.com
To begin I am going to say that I am first and foremost a mother of two very active, and very boy-like boys. There are other areas of my life that I enjoy, but none as much as I enjoy my kids.
One of the best things about being a parent is seeing my kids being happy. Kids can be happy to a level that we as adults rarely achieve. I have wondered why that is and I think it is because they can be happy without thinking about being happy, they just are.
There are some rare occasions when you can see your kids reach a level of happiness that is above and beyond the run of the mill, get to stay up later than usual type of happy. You know what I am talking about; the Christmas morning type of happy; the get to stay home from school type of happy; seeing grandma and grandpa type of happy.
We recently took a family vacation to visit friends and I got to see my kids reach that extra level of happy, and I loved it! Our friends live in Wisconsin, so we decided to take a road trip.
Now, some of you may think that is crazy, driving for 17 hours with a 10 year old and a 6 year old to visit friends for 4 days, but we haven’t seen them in a couple of years, so hey, why not?!
On our way down we noticed a Bass Pro Shops Outdoor World store. For those of you who have never seen one of these stores they are VERY impressive. Just imagine a store the size of Costco filled with anything you could ever imagine needing/wanting/buying-if-you-won-the-lottery for fishing, hunting or camping. There are 8 aisles of fishing lures, 200 reels to test out and more fishing rods than you could possibly count.
Now imagine being 10 and 6 year old boys who live and breathe fishing. When we first walked through the front doors they just stood there in awe, and then it sunk in and they were off!
They did not know what to look at first. They went running up to look at the 25 ft floor to ceiling fish tank, then realized there was a 40 ft floor to ceiling tank with salt water fish at the other end of the store.
They went on the glass elevator at least 5 times so they could see the possum hanging in the tree. The boys took pictures of every taxidermy specimen from a moose to a family of foxes.
Now, anyone who knows me knows that this is not my “cup of tea” at all. I am a vegetarian and cannot get excited about fishing, and definitely not hunting. But, do you know what? I was so happy to be in this store to be able to experience it with my kids.
Truthfully, I should say I was there with 3 kids because my husband was almost as excited as the boys. To be able to see that look in their eyes when they saw a wall full of fishing lures or tried out a cool new rod and reel was a really fun moment to be a part of.
As a parent we learn to read our kids, their moods, good and bad. We can tell when they reach that uber-happy level. I’ll tell you what, I saw that level of happy that day. What made me realize they were truly happy was when they could not stop thanking us for taking them to “that super awesome store”.
It is through their gratitude that their true happiness was revealed. Both of them thanked us for days for making that stop on our trip, which made us want to do more of what makes them happy.
God, as our Heavenly Father, wants us to be happy; he also wants us to be thankful which is how he knows we are truly happy.
When thinking about the last time you were happy, truly happy, were you thankful to the One who is always thinking about our happiness? Leave your comment below.