Every trip we take is packed with anticipation and expectation.
It doesn’t matter how long the trip will be or what kind of trip it is, these two elements are stuffed into everywhere we go.
Let me explain …
As I write this piece, it’s 6:30 am – about an hour and a half before we leave for our annual trip to Toronto for my side of the family’s Christmas.
We’ve made this one-day, 3 hours there and 3 hours back trip for the last 21 years in a row.
And I am anticipating the trip. … I think my blood pressure was up a little today just knowing that we will be leaving soon.
I woke up this morning before my alarm – which doesn’t happen too often – which is another indicator of my anticipation.
I’ve been thinking of what I have to do, and the timing for getting everything ready to leave on time.
We have anticipation for every place we go, even if it is going to the corner store for milk.
The other element is the expectation. Here is where the trip gets interesting. This expectation is based on and feeds off of our history, experience and knowledge.
For instance, today when we leave I have 21 years of experience making this trip at this time of year. So when I see or hear of possible road conditions, I immediately think of several trips that had the same conditions.
Last night it was snowing and the roads were pretty greasy. That type of snow on the roads will make for a more stress-filled trip.
It brings to mind our trip in 2004 when there was only one lane of traffic and every car was in single file going 40 km’s per hour.
Well, that was until a bus blew by us going 100 and I realized that was our only chance to make it. I plowed over the ruts, got in the bus’s tracks and left the traffic in the dust … I guess I should technically say we left the traffic in the snow.
Last night the snow stopped at about 1 a.m.; the road crews should have cleared the highway of snow by now.
So my experience tells me today’s trip will be a little less stressful and a little quicker.
When the roads are clear, my expectations change and it impacts my anticipation.
I know when we have to leave, and what I need to gather together to be ready to leave, and at what time I need to do various things to be ready to leave on time.
I have my anticipation and expectation locked for this trip.
Wait! Stop the presses! My son just texted me; I have to pick him up right now.
Wow – everything has suddenly changed and my mind and emotions have to adjust to reset my expectation and my anticipation.
Here’s the thing: Every time we pray to God, it is like a trip we take with Him. We approach God with anticipation and expectation. But God is all-knowing and all-powerful; He may change your expectations and your anticipation in a flash. Don’t try to figure God out or put Him in a box; just go with the conditions and trust Him.
Question: In what ways have you put God in a box? Leave your comments below.